Monday, March 27, 2017

How to spice up your relationship

When you have been in a relationship for a long time, things get comfortable. You should be comfortable with your significant other, but that can lead to boredom in certain areas. It’s always a good thing to spice things up in your lives. Go out to new restaurants, visit new places, go and explore together. Excitement is important or you will get too comfortable. No one wants to do the same things every day and just sit there and watch TV. You might find that the comfortableness causes problems. You miss that brand new relationship feel where you are doing so many things together. You get in that routine. You may not know how to talk to your partner about this feeling. You don’t want to hurt their feelings but you want more excitement. Try to go out to a new restaurant once a month. Maybe try a new cuisine, a new place and you might find a place that you love.  Have a date night together so you can have some time alone. You really need time alone with your partner to focus on each other’s needs.  If money is tight, you can go to out and have a picnic under the stars, even if it’s in your backyard. Some relationships fail because the other person feels neglected.
When you are in love with someone, you want to express your love to them. Yes, even that can become routine. It’s perfectly normal to have certain likes and even a fantasy now and then. There’s no reason to be embarrassed about it. We all like different things and don’t like other things. You should be comfortable with your partner and be open about it. I think it can make a relationship more fulfilling. You want to bring passion to your relationship and why not help them fulfill that for them. It needs to be something that you feel comfortable doing. If it’s not, then please tell them and respect that they might feel uncomfortable about something too. Communication is one of the keys to a successful relationship. It doesn’t have to be anything real wild. It’s fun to pretend sometimes.  It can be something as simple as dressing up as a character or just something different from your regular jammies. It would be a nice surprise to your partner.  Just something to bring some spice and excitement in to the bedroom. Men are honestly visual creatures, wearing something special from would make them happy. It works both ways, they have some men’s items too. It’s a safe and fun way to try something new and explore each other intimately.

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